Brothers, it's time to be a gentleman - THIS is how...

Although most people might disagree, I often like to believe that the term “player” should be synonymous with gentleman. Quite frankly, if a player wasn’t a gentleman, he’ll have a hard time at being a player. If we look at it this way, we can see that these terms are interconnected.

This is exactly why I wanted to talk about HOW to be gentleman in today’s article...

Black people are drawn to black people! ...Obama shows it!

With all the black on black crimes you hear going on around the world you could think that black people didn't like each other a lot of the time.

But on the complete other side to that black people are the only race that I have actively noticed who feel the NEED to say hello to another person who is a complete stranger just because they are the same race!

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They can be in a completely different country to where they live so they blatantly don't know anybody but when they walk past a fellow black guy they have to acknowledge each other.  It can be just a simple and discreet 'up nod' or a straight up full blown greeting but there will always be something.

This is hard to explain if your with a group of white people in a foreign city and you acknowledge a black guy who has clearly acknowledged you but not any of the non blacks in your group so they ask if you know him! (which you don't).

This happens more in the UK but it does happen all over the world.  I think the reason may be down to often being in the minority so black guys subconsciously look for support in numbers whenever they get the chance.

This is only true of the black men though, black women do not greet strangers just because they are the same colour.

It looks like even Obama has some form of this built-in black on black welcoming thing going on too! (check the video)

~Dee

SUPER strong normal looking dudes! Crazy lifting abilities

Now I like gymnastics and I like displays of strength and skill, but when you see this and also think about all the practising involved is this a little too man on man action to really enjoy as a hetro?

I'm gonna leave that question with you and will keep a check on the comments!

Then again if you enjoy MMA/UFC fighting (which a lot of us do) you see even more batty in man's faces! ...So just enjoy the performance and stop being stupid!

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Man nearly blows his OWN HEAD OFF!

This guy is one lucky mother fucker! For his stupidity he should have really got his head blown off.

Maybe he should have taken shooting lessons from that little girl who definitely does know how to handle guns!

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Young girl shooting the crap out of everything!

I don't know what they are training this girl to be but she is just blasting shit like a cyborg.

Maybe she's one of those girls who come from a long line of police officers or something, but wherever she lives would definitely be the wrong house for a burglar to try and break into.

Check out the video...

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What are the BEST DRUGS TO SELL as a beginner drug dealer?

From Carl:
I want to earn some extra money especially with Christmas coming up so I was thinking of shottin (sell drugs) as I know someone who does it and he makes bare dough.

What is the best drugs to sell to start off with where the consequences for getting caught aren't as severe but where I can still make good money?
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The Man Dem response:
Basically if you're writing in here for advice on how to sell drugs I don't think you were cut out to be a drug dealer! ...Which is a good thing buy the way.

Yes there is big money to be made and people shottin' may appear to be balling but selling even weed comes with a heavy sentence if  you get caught and means a complete change of your lifestyle to not get caught.

For example you will have to always be looking over your shoulder for police (and they will be watching), you will have to go back to stashing money under your mattress as you can't put drug money in the bank, you will not be able to trust anyone as you and your stash would be a target for people to jack or for someone to blab about, you would have to prove that you are not to be fucked with by fucking up some people which that itself could see you doing time! your friends and family will always have the constant threat of being raided and 05:00 and will be targeted by other dealers to get to you.

General advice will be to talk to your boy that does it and ask him what he has to go through on a daily basis then ask yourself if that lifestyle is worth the extra money for YOU.  Ask yourself can you afford to be locked up even for a couple days, never mind months or years.

I hear where you're coming from as we can all do with some extra cash but have you looked at other ways first? ...Like a weekend (legal) job, or maybe even starting your own (legal) business.

~Dee

Check Out Arnold Schwarzenegger Repeating Some Of His Famous Lines For Fans!

When you talk about action heroes, this is the founder of that shit. If you don't know about Arnold Schwarzenegger (apart from his sleazy side like the 'Gropegate' scandal) you need to get to know. This guy was 'hench' before you even knew what it meant and has been one of The Man Dem from WAY back. In his films he was always a badass. Check him reciting some of his famous lines...
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Commando, Running Man, Predator, Total Recall (the original!) to name just a few of his best movies. this guy is a fucking hero.

Yes Arnie is an old man now but still looks strong as an Ox and I still believe that he could 'ram his fist into your stomach and break your god damn spine' with that old man strength that guys like him, Sylvester Stallone and others get once they hit about 40.

Anyway check him quoting some of his lines on these short videos...

You know he's a badass when he burns down a forest to say this line! And the most famous of all...

 Any favourites you wanted him to do? WTF happened to 'hasta la vista, baby'?

~Cee

ANGRY Russell Brand vs Paxman. Russell has woken up, have you?

Now where ever you live there is going to be a government dishing out laws and taxes which is supposed to be be for the 'good of the country'.

However we all know all too well that no matter who you end up voting for, that 'for the good of the country' really means 'for the good of the rich people', and Russell does not mince his (posh) words telling the world in this video


Russell Brand although the known for being a comedian shares some deep views about why voting doesn't make that much of a difference at the moment.

If you've got an opinion then lets hear it.

The Man Dem Guide: How to make women be VERY interested in YOU

By Alex Matlock
We all know that being boring doesn't get you laid, but what if there was something you could do, something that would make you more interesting to women? It’s a known fact that being interesting is a synonym to being attractive, sure it has its limits but the general idea is 100% true.  This advice will get you laid.
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Because being interesting is absolutely key when it comes to getting laid, today I'm going to show you some simple yet very effective ways on how to become more interesting to women.

Explore Everything Like Columbus

This doesn't apply just to travelling, although if you travel a lot, you’d have a lot to talk about. But it applies to everything in general. The more you explore any subject the more you’ll know and be able to talk about it.

As long as your subjects of choice aren't boring people to death, this method is a fantastic way to become more interesting. It will also allow you to relate to a larger amount of people, since you know more about more things, something that would also make you seem intelligent. Albeit, if you know so much about many things, you might already be intelligent.

Talk About What You Know or Have Experienced

It doesn't matter how much you know or have experienced, if you never talk about it. Make it a point to open up whenever you find yourself in a social situation. Many people find it hard to talk in these scenarios but if you do it, you’ll take the pressure of them and have everyone eating out of your hand.

Do Something New Every Week

Although this might seem a bit difficult, don’t think of it as in doing a bungee jump this week and skydiving in the other. It can be anything from watching an Asian film to trying to knit. As long as you’re doing something new, you’ll always learn something new. The more you know about things, the easier it will be to talk about them.

Stick To What You Like

Don’t give 2 cents on what other people think. If you like business and the marketing of products to various audiences’ interests you deeply, talk about that. Be your own man and know that if you talk about what you know with an intelligent point of view, people will listen.

You can have college dropouts eating your every word if you’re expressing your thoughts with passion and common sense.

You Don’t Always Have To Talk

As you probably know already, the best way to relate to women is to listen closely and ask interesting questions. Try not to be the one that’s always talking, make a point to listen to others, you might actually learn something new.

Get Better At What You’re Good At

There are some things that you’re naturally good at and enjoy doing (no, it’s not playing Xbox). If you focus on those things as much as you can, you’ll eventually become your social circle’s expert on the issue.

You might think that this has nothing to do with anything, but being the authority on any issue means people will come at you for advice. Once they do, you’ll have respect and recognition from others, raising your social status like a boss.

Speak More Than 1 Language

While I'm sure many of you reading this are not English speakers by birth and have at least that as their forte. It’s a sad fact that most native English speakers don’t know any other foreign languages.

Personally, I'm fluent in 3 and know enough from others to make people that don’t know the language think I'm fluent. This works fantastically well when trying to showcase my abilities in social situations or in 1on1 situations with women.

If one particular girl tells me she visited Barcelona this summer I can say “Ah señorita, habla español?”, she’ll say “No, do you?” then I’ll just say “Sí, hablo un poco de español. Soy un hombre de negocios, un hombre mui fuerte” and although that doesn’t mean jack, I bet you she’ll be stunned about my abilities. Not only that, but I was able to relate to her (and her travels) in a way that many English speaking people aren’t. And no, I’m not fluent in Spanish either.

Lead! Don’t Follow

This is an obvious one but it’s absolutely paramount. Women are attracted to men that LEAD not to the ones that follow, it’s in their DNA. Be the guy that others want to follow, be strong about your opinions, don’t give in easy and don’t let anyone run you over. It will make you more interesting. It will make people ask the question, but why? Why do you have different views? Why do you want it to be like that?

And yet again, you’ll have people listening to what you have to say.

Be Fearless

When you’re bold and fearless a lot of things start to happen. Women will be attracted to you, guys will respect you, and new opportunities will always open up.

Being shy and uncomfortable is somewhat natural to most guys, being fearless and bold is not. If you want to be more interesting you need to step outside your comfort zone and go for what you want. It’s the only way you’re ever going to get there…

If You've Learnt It, Use It!

As already discussed, learning something new is absolutely key, but it’s nothing when compared to using what you've learned.

Take this article for example. So you now know that learning 1 other language is a phenomenal skill, because you've read it here. What will you do? Will you actually put in a little effort towards learning a new language, or will you just disregard that piece of advice like you do with everything else and continue with your mundane life as always?

It’s up to you. If you want change, things will change when you decide to work for that change. Now you know what it takes to be more interesting, it’s up to you to make the decision to change.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women. 

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Fat girl vs gravity as she tries to do a cartwheel!

Is this only funny because she's fat? ...I really don't know?!

I love the way her arms instantly realise that they can't handle all that weight.

'Mind over matter' could not help this time!

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IDIOT tries to smash car window with his HEAD!

Seriously how dumb have you got to be to want to do this?

Now what if he was successful and did break the glass, he'd probably slit his throat.  Now that would be a funny video.

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Screw watching street fight videos. THIS is the only fighting you should be watching...

Any fight fans out there will know that UFC 166 was on this Saturday gone and this was a pretty sick fight card. The UFC in particular pisses all over boxing and the big fights that need to be made get made. No long.

Check out the highlights from the latest event...

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I've been an mixed martial arts (or cage fighting as some of the none fans like to call it) fan for a while now and it seems to be becoming more and more popular as time goes on. And contrary to popular belief I think that it's actually a SAFER sport than boxing.

Take a look anyway, fight fans will not be disappointed...

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Someone please tell me how to make friends!

From Anonymous

Hi. I've recently moved from the UK to Canada for a job. I'm 30 and single. The reason I moved is because I wasn't really doing fuckall in England apart from working and eating takeout food or buying meals for one. I have a few friends from work but we don't socialise outside of work, even though they go out for drinks and stuff after work...
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I did go out once with them but I wasn't really that comfortable and left pretty early. As a joke some people used to call me a geek because I love computers.

Can someone just give me some advice on making friends and 'fitting in'. Everyone else can do it so easily but I can't. I really don't want to mess this up in my new place, I just want to be one of 'the man dem'. This shit is depressing it's like my life is just ticking away with no real purpose.

Please, please, please give me some tips on how to make friends.

Reply from The Man Dem

Okaaaaay, sounds like you need to just get out more. Join some out of work thing, martial arts, whatever. You're going to have to get out of your comfort zone and meet a bunch of new people. Regarding the work people you need to just grow some balls man, spark up conversations about stuff and I'm sure you'll find some common ground. Have you tried dating sites - there are lots to choose from.

Worst comes to worse use your geekiness to your advantage and offer to fix their computer problems or something. To the rest of the man dem out there... help him out and give your opinion in the comments!

~Cee

Barber F**KED up my hairline! I'm suing the C**T!!!

What would you do if a barber messed up your hairline like this? Hairline got took back 5cm!

I'm just wondering how the fuck did you not know this when he was cutting your hair?

Check out the video...

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Street fight ONE Punch KO!

You can't be the one looking for the fight and then let this happen to you!
He was warned but I guess there is only one way to learn.
Goodnight.

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How To Make A Woman Your 'Friend With Benefits' AKA your F**K Buddy!

by Alex Matlock
Studies have shown that almost half of the college student population in the USA are in or have been involved in a “friends with benefits” relationship. That is an outstanding statistic which I personally didn't expect, especially when you consider how hard it is to make FWB relationships work after you've graduated college.

So why are FWB relationships so popular? Keep reading to find out...
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The Good
The obvious and most important benefit is the hassle free sex. Two people that are in good terms, make an agreement that basically stipulates one can use the other for sex, whenever they feel like it. This usually means they are both doing this without any emotional involvement whilst still getting all the fantastic things that come with a sex partner (the awesome sex).

The Bad
It never lasts forever. In fact, studies have shown that most FWB relationships end before the 10th encounter because one of the parties starts to get emotionally involved. If your FWB relationship ends even earlier it clearly means that the chick you got involved with, only agreed to this in hopes that she’ll eventually get a relationship out of you. This is something that often happens if you pick the wrong “friend” to turn into FWB.

With that being said let’s look at some guidelines that will surely put you on the right track.

Which Types Of Women Make Good Friends With Benefits?
In reality you can get almost any girl to become your f**k buddy but most of them will never last the full 10 meetings. In order to have a true FWB relationship you need to pick the girls that are most likely to want the same thing.

When looking at this I like to view women in 2 different categories.

The ones that need a man in their life – These chicks are girlfriend material which want and are constantly looking for a boyfriend. These are the girls that you don’t want to turn into your f**k buddy because it will only last until she’s convinced that you’re indeed just using her for sex.

The ones that don’t need a man in their life – These are the career driven, pushing to be or already are independent women. These women believe that they don’t need a man in their life, don’t need anyone to take care of them and are fine being single and on their own. This is the sort of woman you want to initially befriend and then turn into your f**k buddy. On a different note, these are also the only women that make good mistresses.

Just like you, they need sex but don’t want nor need a relationship because they either don’t have time for it or simply do not want to put in the effort.

How To Start It
First of all, you need to understand that this isn't a one night stand. As a result, you’ll have to put some time in, but only in the beginning. This time will allow you to create a friendship with her, something that will enable you to CLEARLY see the type of woman she is.

This is absolutely paramount. If the girl is looking for a guy to have a relationship with, you shouldn't attempt the FWB scenario. It will probably work for a little while then she will just push you to be in a relationship and will get hurt when you don’t want it.

Once that’s cleared up you just have to make the proposition. Tell her straight up and let her choose. Say something in the lines of “We’re both NOT looking for anything serious right now so, why not have some fun whenever we feel like it?”. If she’s the right type of woman she’ll gladly agree to this. Who doesn't want hassle free sex if they don’t want or haven’t got the time for a relationship?

Just make sure she is attracted to you and that the proposition doesn't make you seem like you’re the one that’s trying to make this happen only to force out a relationship in the long run.

How To Make It Work
Like with any other arrangement, some clear guidelines will always help keep things under control.

Make it all about the sex. This means no dates, no walks through the park, no weekends together or any other “couple” activity that might cause you to get emotionally involved.

Don’t do it too often. As shown above, most relationships like this don’t last past the 10th encounter mark. Use that time wisely and you might just stretch it more than that. Plus, too much of anything is never a good thing.

Honesty is key. If you’re seeing other chicks and she asks you about it, tell the truth. She’s not your girlfriend so there’s no point in hiding your other affairs.

Be cool about it. If she doesn’t have time, doesn’t want to see and bang you on some night, be cool about it. Losing control will only tell her that you’re emotionally involved, an IDGAF attitude is what you need here.

Don’t react poorly. Same as above, if she’s seeing other dudes (like you should be seeing other women) don’t react like a dumbass. It’s only going to show her that you’re involved. Again, the IDGAF attitude is paramount in a relationship like this.

Keep it private. Nobody needs to know that you two are banging. Having a FWB could be embarrassing for a girl and if you’re the one that embarrasses her then you’re also the one that’s not going to get near that cookie anymore.

Respect her. This isn’t some dirty drunk you met at a club somewhere. This is a person that agreed to give you hassle free sex. How much you respect her is directly related to how long this FWB relationship can continue. The less you respect, the quicker it ends.

When it Ends
Eventually it’s going to end. Nothing lasts forever and the same goes for f**k buddies. Here are just a few guidelines to keep things civil:

If you fall for her, tell her. If she feels the same way, you can live happily ever after. If she doesn’t, it ends there. You can’t continue a FWB relationship if one of you has feelings for the other.

If you see her falling for you and you don’t feel the same way. END it. She might want to continue in hopes
that you’ll see the light but that’s just going to break her heart in the long run.

If you find another girl and want to start a relationship with that chick, end the FWB deal. Be honest and tell her upfront before anyone gets hurt.

If she finds another dude and tells you she’s starting a relationship, let it end there. Dust off, move on and find a new chick.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women. 

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5 Minutes of straight motorboating for Breast Cancer Awareness!!!

The guys offered to donate $20 to Breast Cancer Awareness for every motorboat they did! You have the full support of The Man Dem!

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Tiddies on the brain!

How many of you come up with exactly the same answer as this guy did on this game show?

I went for his answer too but when I really tried harder I then came up with tongue.

Yep, he's one of the man dem.

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Iguana proves that CATS don't ALWAYS land on their FEET!

This cat forgets how to run never mind land on its feet!
You need to see this just so you can tell cat people that they are wrong.

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This thing will literally SUCK the FAT off you!

This gift is also on the Christmas list along with cheapest boob job!

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MMA KANGAROO fight with rear naked choke KO!

Yep you read that right.

That's the last time I start a fight with a Kangaroo, fuck that.

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19cm WORM pulled out of this dudes EYE!

What the fuck?
This is some sick shit from a nasty African eye disease called loiasis.

Go look in the mirror quick.

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My baby has come out WHITE how do I know it's mine?

From Jaden 

I'm a black man with dark skin and I am with a white girl, we have two kids together one boy which clearly looks mixed race (you know that yellow complexion) and also looks like me, and one REALLY WHITE girl that looks nothing like me.  
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All my friends have been taking the piss out of me for years and asking who's the dad?  My daughter is now 3 years old and I feel I can't bond properly because of the doubt in my mind.  
My girl has never cheated on me as far as I know but is it out of order to get my kids DNA tested so that I can know for sure?

Reply from The Man Dem

Your girl never needs to know and you will have peace of mind.  Do what you know you've got to do. Because when they get to 18 it's too late and there are no refunds!

UK DNA home test kit

US DNA home test kit

~Dee

Benefit Fraudster beasts out on EVERYBODY including police!

Crazy guy Timothy Harris on CCTV randomly smacking the shit out of people in Northampton city centre whilst he was signed off work claiming benefits!

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Man gets shot trying to do a GTA5 style bike jack!

Can't believe this shit happens in broad day light!
Live by the gun die by the gun mother fucker.

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This guy removes a BULLET from his OWN shoulder!

Check out this brother from Inglewood remove a bullet from his own shoulder! Just another day in the hood...

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The Cheapest BOOB JOB in the world!

So wait, no surgery or ugly scars... a tiny fraction of the price... better looking tiddies?!
I know what my girl is getting for Christmas!  ...And what her mum is getting!

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Guy finds a DEAD MOUSE inside his can of Monster Energy!

This is a fucking sick story. I guarantee this video will change the way you feel about canned drinks... FOREVER!

Guy buys a can of Monster Energy. Guy drinks can of Monster Energy. Notices that there's still some weight in the can after he's finished, so empties the remains of the can into his mouth and get a mouthful of dead mouse debris! check out the video...
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If I remember rightly, I had one of these energy drinks when they first came into the UK. Shit tasted like poison. Who the fuck drinks this shit?

~Cee

The Man Dem Guide - Do you really NEED money to get women?

Even though most of 'Man Dem Guide' articles clearly explain what one needs to do in order to get women, I still have guys either emailing or leaving comments saying that: “Unless you have money, none of this will work” “All you need is to have money” “Money is the key to getting women” etc.

See why that thinking is wrongly holding you back
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I want to take the time to finally put this beast to rest. Similar to the “good looks” issue, “money” is another problem that men give way to much importance to. In my honest opinion the amount of cash you roll is something that MAY give you an advantage but it’s not in any way a requirement, it will only help you attract the kind of women you DON’T want, and it’s also something that men value much more than women.

With that being said, there’s only ONE real benefit that money will bring you.

More Freedom

Yep, that’s it. Having an unending flow of cash will only give you a wider range of countries, cities, clubs that you can visit and try to score in. It will also give you access to higher quality events, venues, parties and in the end high-class people. Money will also allow you to have a lot more stress-free fun (that is if making that unending flow of cash isn’t putting a ton of stress on you already) because you’re never going to have to worry “where am I going to take this chick?” since you can take her anywhere and not worry about the cost.

The bottom line is that MONEY will only create more opportunities.

If money creates more opportunities it means you already have plenty of opportunities even without all that cash, right?

If You Use Money To Attract Women, You’ll Just Get Money Hungry Women

That’s 100% true. I have a friend that makes around 30k a month with his business. When he first started making that much, he went all out, bought VIP tables in the best clubs, poured champagne down girls’ throats, wore expensive suits, watches and genuinely partied like a rockstar.

He isn’t doing that anymore. Since regular parties in the VIP lounge sound pretty amazing, I had to ask him about it. He said, “Although I always had sex with those girls, in the end, they were just after my money. “

Using money to get girls will only help you get gold-diggers. Yes, you will bang them, but they’re only doing it for your money. Think about it, you might as well just buy a hooker; at least she’s honest about taking your money.

Women Go For The Investment

This is absolutely key, if you can show any woman that you’re a valuable investment, she will be with you (bang you) even if RIGHT NOW, you’re absolutely broke. The power of this investment model is outstanding. Women aren’t looking for your money, that’s not what they want.

They want to be with a guy that offers her some stability and security. The fact that you’re making a decent living doesn’t mean that she’s going to get free jewelry. It means that sticking by your side will in turn mean that she won’t have to worry about eating on a daily basis.

If you’re broke you can still be ambitious. She will stick by your side knowing that even though you don’t have anything right now, your hard work and dedication will pay out in the end. This means that she’s sticking with you because you’ve managed to present yourself as a valuable investment.

Note: The power of this investment model dies down with age, if you’re 20, this is pretty much the only thing you can show a girl but, by the time you’re over 30, it’s expected that one should be somewhat accomplished in something. If you’re 30, this model might not work with most women your age but it will work just as well with girls in their early 20’s.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

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Coolio goes to Tesco, cooks for students ands spits lyrics in a house in Preston, UK!

Imagine going to see your favourite performer in concert, meeting them in the VIP and inviting them back to your house? Well that's what this bunch of UK students did after seeing Coolio perform in Preston!

All this is caught on video...
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It doesn't stop there... Coolio cooked for THEM and started rapping 'Gangsta's Paradise'!

Okay, so when Coolio gets to the house they need some ingredients so that he can cook up some 'Coolio’s Caprese Salad, Chicken á la Daaaamn, and Peach Crumble' right so they go to TESCO (no doubt one of the many Tesco Express' that you find on every fucking corner) to get the stuff that he needs. Source

Wanna see the vid? Check it out...

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Now this shit here is what The Man Dem like to see. You often see celebs stuck up their own ass and not really got time for the average man but Coolio showed he's a down to earth brother.

~Cee

Angry woman pins man up the wall using SUPER POWERS!!!!

Imagine actually seeing someone using super powers that you see people using in movies! These coffee shop customers thought they saw the real thing!

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What should schools really be teaching in today's world? Pythagoras and his theorem is dead

If we are all born to be different, have different abilities and interests, look and think differently, then why are we all defined by the same judging system at schools (Exams)?

This video expresses it in a way that really makes you listen and think...
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Are schools even teaching the kids of today stuff that they will actually use in 'todays' world?  When was the last time you used Pythagorus or had to work out the value of 'x'?

Learning is good and people need to be taught but at the same time what is being taught needs to be relevant.  Making a good living IS possible through the likes of social media in today's world.  Going to University doesn't guarantee you a better life than someone who has followed their dream in 'today's world.

Check this deep thinking music video from Suli Breaks (main bit comes in at 0:30 seconds).

Good to see a music video with a real message and thought behind it.

People it's time to open your eyes AND your mind.  If exams are not your thing, then do something else.

It's time to stop sitting on the fence and watching life happen, start by actually voicing your opinion right here on this post with a 'comment'

~Dee

New York robber with a GUN gets OWNED by machete!

This is the last thing the robber expected the shop owner to do... not a single fuck was given that day. Check it out! Moral... don't steal!

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My boyfriend NEVER EVER wants any foreplay!

From S
Hi The Man Dem! Right, I'm a 23 year old woman and have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now and we get on really well, we like the same music, go out raving together and all that and when we first started going out it was fantastic in the bedroom. For about the last 6 weeks though, every time it comes to having nookie he never wants to spend any time on foreplay...
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It's almost like he can't be bothered or thinks that now he's got me he doesn't have to put any effort in. What is it with you guys, why do you think you can just be like 'wham bam thank you mam'? Do you think he's bored of me or what?

Reply from The Man Dem
Okay, here's my honest opinion. Sometimes the man dem just want to have a 'release'. Don't get me wrong from time to time we go through all that 'lovey dovey' romance shit to keep the woman happy and sometimes it's nice to get a good session of foreplay in... sometimes. but bear in mind that 99% of the man dem out there are wondering whether they've done enough foreplay to get you turned on enough and really just want get down to business.

No foreplay at all though is a problem. If he's avoiding kissing you and touching you (apart from his dick) and shit like that, maybe he just doesn't like you anymore and is just trying to satisfy his sexual needs. Sorry babe! Are YOU satisfying HIM in the bedroom or are you #3 The Starfish?

~Cee

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Bald spot? ...WHAT BALD SPOT!! Grow your HAIR BACK in SECONDS!

Like many of the man dem I now shave my head really low to try and blend in the bald spot at the front of my head that has now even starting to shine!

I do believe my problem is now solved with this!

Check out how to get your hair back INSTANTLY!
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Being in my early thirty's though I can't help thinking that mother nature is being kind of fucked up on me especially when I see much older man's than me rocking a dark head of hair with that cartoon looking neat hair line! I probably sound bitter and jealous but that's only because I am.

Now I know that hair loss kills your confidence.  Not only as a man but as a player too!  So getting my hair line back would put me back in my 'A' game.

This is supposed to work on all hair types so I've taken the guinea pig step for all of you out there, I have purchased some of this Caboki hair growth stuff to use on myself to see if it really can do what it shows it can do on the video.

I should get my order in 2-4 weeks and if I get enough people 'liking' and 'commenting' on this post to show some love for the cause then I will write another post with my personal findings of using it so you will all know whether its worth your money.

Watch this space...

~Dee

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What the F**K did I just read? Check out Gizoogle!!!

Twinkle twinkle lil star,
How tha fuck I wonder what tha fuck yo ass is.
Up above tha ghetto so high,
Like a gangbangin' finger-lickin' diamond up in tha sky.
Twinkle twinkle lil star,
How tha fuck I wonder what tha fuck yo ass is.

Wanna know what the hell I'm talking about? Keep reading...
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What you can see above is the popular kids nursery rhyme translated by a search engine called Gizoogle into 'gangsta slang used by Snoop Dogg'. Yeah that's right, someone has taken the effort to create a Snoop Dogg dictionary just so you can translate stuff into shit like this!

All you do is go to Gizoogle.net and search for whatever you wanna search for like a normal search engine. The only catch is that you get shit like this coming back at you... check out Barack Obama's Wikipedia page:

Has someone sent you a formal email and you'd rather have Snoop Dogg say it to you? Click on the textilizer link in Gizoogle and you'll get a full Snoop translation. 

Ever wanted to have a webpage translated into some Snoop Dogg bullshit? No, neither have I and this is one of the most pointless creations I've seen. But guess what... I've been Gizoogling shit like a maa fucka!

~ Cee

The Man Dem Guide - How to MAKE SURE you BANG her on on the FIRST date!

Kissing a girl early, when you first meet (bar/club/place where you initiated the pick-up), will dramatically increase your chances of getting laid on the first date.

The above statement should not be confused with: kissing a girl when you meet will increase your chances of getting a date, because it won’t.

Read on to understand what I mean...
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We live in a culture where kissing is nothing and therefore if a girl kisses you, it really doesn't mean she’ll want to see you again.

That being said, if a chick does decide to see you again, let’s look at 3 good reasons why kissing her early can get you laid on your first date.

1. It Improves Your Game

This is the very first and probably most intellectually reasonable. If you go out on a date with a girl that you haven’t kissed before, your entire energy will be focused on how to impress her, so much so that you can miss the signs she’s giving you. As a result, you’ll be much more nervous, prone to saying stupid things, more likely to overdo everything (humor, boasting etc). Basically, if you’re going out with a girl that you haven’t kissed you have a high chance of cockblocking yourself.

On the other hand, if you’re going out with a girl that you’ve previously kissed, all you’ll be thinking about is when and how are you going to initiate the next kiss. Because you already kissed her before, you strongly believe that you can do it again. As a result, you’ll immediately position yourself closer to her, close enough to get some touching going; you’ll be much more relaxed in the way you talk and everything that you do will be focused on getting a makeout session started. As a result, you’re less likely to cockblock yourself and much more likely to be a stud that goes for what he wants.

Word of advice, try to get the session going after about an hour.

2. It Tells Her What To Expect

This has immense power even if you went for the kiss and she rejected you. Because she knows that you wanted to kiss her, it tells her that on the date, you’re going to try to kiss her again and maybe something more.

The same goes if you’ve actually kissed her. She’s already expecting you to kiss her again plus, “who knows what else”.

Basically, any chick that agrees to go on a “date” with you after a kiss attempt or an actual kiss – is OK with whatever moves you’re going to pull on the date. She is in fact, very aware that you might just try to weasel yourself into her bed. As a result, you’re most certainly going to get a makeout session going and possibly even a bang.

3. It’s Not The Last Thing That You’ll Do

This is where it all comes down to. Let’s say you got her number and she agreed to go out with you. If she’s like most girls, the best you’re going to get out of this date is a kiss/makeout at the end.

If you’ve already kissed when you first met and then she agreed to go out with you, things have a much higher chance of going the other way. It’s quite simple when you think about it. Because you’ve already kissed, you’re going to get a makeout session during the actual date. Therefore, if you’ve been making out all evening, chances are that something MORE than a kiss will happen at the end of the date.

Most of the time, dating follows a somewhat natural progression:

You meet, you ask her out – After the first date, you kiss – After another date you kiss some more and if you’re really lucky you get a bang – After a 3rd date you kiss a lot more and usually get the bang.

However, if you kiss her when you meet, you can basically cut out 2 dates out of the equation so the natural progression goes like this:

You met, you kissed – You met again, you kissed a lot, you banged.

In conclusion, kissing a girl when you meet can seriously increase your chances of banging her on the first date because it directly affects what happens at the end of the date.

Note to Remember: Don’t expect and don’t try to get a makeout going as soon as you meet her for the first date. Give it a little time, start over and rebuild the energy you got going when you first kissed her. The makeout session will happen, just give it a bit of time.

This is the sort of stuff I discuss on my blog and in the free eBook I give out. If you want to increase your success with women, visit http://ThePlayerGuide.com – a place where the dating mindset is thrown out the window in favor of more direct and fruitful methods of meeting and seducing women.

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Amaretto Hot Chocolate - for The Man Dem who want that little bit more from a hot drink!

Okay, when it comes to drinks I'm not a hot drink drinker. I don't need like 10 cups of coffee or tea every day just to keep me going. But the truth is that it's starting to get cold out there (especially in miserable England), so every now and again I like to rock a hot drink. My choice of drink? Amaretto hot chocolate. And this is the official way to do it...
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First things first, make sure you've got a bottle of Amaretto at the ready or you've already failed.

INGREDIENTS

1/2 cup whole milk
1/4 cup heavy cream
5 ounces good-quality milk chocolate, chopped up
3 tablespoons Amaretto

INSTRUCTIONS

Mix the milk and cream in a small saucepan until it's simmering, about 4 minutes. Add the chocolate and whisk until completely melted and mixed nicely, about 2 minutes. Remove from the heat, whisk in the amaretto, and serve immediately.

If you're a big fan of Amaretto I suggest you put more than 3 tablespoons in though (more like a couple of shots!). And if you can't be bothered to go through those instructions just make yourself an instant Cadbury's hot chocolate or something and bang a couple shots of Amaretto in. Trust me, it works!

When it comes to Amaretto, yes, The Man Dem should cook...

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~Cee

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